155 Really (Really) Spicy Relationship Questions

If you’re looking for spicy relationship questions…

This post is for you.

Here you’ll discover 155 relationship questions that are so damn SPICY!

Let’s dive in.

Spicy Relationship Questions

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1: What was your first impression of me?

2: Have you ever had a crush on someone just from their voice?

3: What’s your biggest turn-on?

4: What would you do if I kissed you right now?

5: Have you ever imagined us in a steamy scene?

6: Do you like being teased?

7: What outfit of mine drives you wild?

8: Would you rather cuddle or make out?

9: What do you notice first when someone flirts with you?

10: What pet name would you secretly love to be called?

11: What’s the sexiest thing someone’s ever said to you?

12: Have you ever had a naughty dream about me?

13: What’s your favorite place to be kissed?

14: Do you like slow sex, or rough sex?

15: How do you feel about sexting?

16: Lights on or off?

17: Would you ever make a sex tape?

18: Have you ever used toys in bed?

19: What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try in bed?

20: Are you more dominant or submissive?

21: If we were alone in a hotel room right now, what would you do?

22: What would you do if I whispered something naughty in your ear in public?

23: Would you ever sneak away for a quickie at a party?

24: Have you ever done it somewhere risky?

25: If I blindfolded you, what would you want to happen next?

26: What’s your favorite sexual fantasy?

27: How would you seduce me if we had a whole night together?

28: Do you like being fucked in the shower?

29: Would you let me take control for a night?

30: If I was wearing nothing but a robe, what would you do?

31: Do you like giving or receiving more?

32: Describe your favorite sexual memory for me?

33: What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done sexually?

34: Where’s the wildest place you’ve had sex?

35: Ever fantasized about a threesome?

36: How do you feel about dirty talk?

37: What’s your go-to move in bed?

38: Can you describe what turns you on in detail?

39: What’s your dirtiest fantasy?

40: Have you ever used food during sex?

41: Handcuffs: hot or not?

42: What would be your safe word for BDSM acts?

43: How do you feel about spanking?

44: Have you ever been tied up?

45: What are your thoughts about anal sex?

46: What’s your kinkiest thought?

47: Would you try a BDSM experience?

48: Ever been to or wanted to go to a sex club?

49: Do you like pain with pleasure?

50: Would you be open to experimenting with submission/domination?

51: What makes you feel loved the most?

52: What’s your biggest fear in a relationship?

53: What does intimacy mean to you?

54: How do you want to be touched emotionally?

55: What kind of love do you crave?

56: Do you feel safe being fully yourself with me?

57: What moment with me made your heart skip a beat?

58: When do you feel closest to me?

59: What’s one thing you wish I understood better about you?

60: How do you show love without words?

61: What’s your favorite part of my body?

62: What’s your favorite part of your own body?

63: What body part do you wish I’d focus on more?

64: Would you pose nude for me?

65: Do you like soft touches or firm hands?

66: What kind of physical affection drives you the most crazy?

67: Do you like being watching people have sex?

68: Are you more visual or touch-oriented?

69: What scent on me turns you on the most?

70: Have you ever sent a nude selfie?

71: What’s a scene you’ve always wanted to play out?

72: If we had 24 hours alone — no rules — what would we do?

73: How do you picture our sexiest night together?

74: Would you ever skinny dip with me?

75: If we were characters in an erotic novel, what would the plot be?

76: What fantasy do you keep to yourself?

77: If we could teleport somewhere to hook up, where would we go?

78: If I wrote you a dirty story, would you act it out?

79: Would you ever let me “kidnap” you for a night of pleasure?

80: What’s the most forbidden thought you’ve had about us?

81: Morning sex?

82: Shower sex?

83: Car sex?

84: Phone sex?

85: Stripping for each other?

86: Watching adult films together?

87: Sex in public?

88: Being loud in bed?

89: Quickies?

90: Edging?

91: Be dominant or submissive?

92: Have passionate slow sex, or a quick hardcore fuck?

93: Use toys or hands only?

94: Be teased or do the teasing?

95: Be caught or do the catching?

96 Dirty talk or silent moans?

97: Be kissed all over or licked all over?

98: Watch or be watched?

99: Have sex in the morning or middle of the night?

100: Strip for me or have me strip for you?

101: Ever hooked up while tipsy?

102: Do you get more touchy when you drink?

103: Ever had a truth-or-dare moment get heated?

104: What’s your flirty drunk alter ego like?

105: Ever done something sexual in public while buzzed?

106: What’s a sexy truth you’ve never told anyone?

107: Would you skinny dip after a few drinks?

108: Ever made out in a club or party?

109: What’s your favorite thing to do after a few drinks?

110: Have you ever flirted with someone on a dare?

111: What’s your guilty pleasure in the bedroom?

112: Ever had a secret hookup?

113: What’s a fetish you’ve thought about exploring?

114: Ever fantasized about being caught?

115: What’s one thing you want me to do—but haven’t asked for?

116: Have you ever had a rebound that got too spicy?

117: Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?

118: What’s something sexual you’re curious but nervous about?

119: Ever sexted someone by accident?

120: What’s your “I probably shouldn’t have done that” moment?

121: Send me your most seductive selfie?

122: Describe your last spicy dream?

123: Whisper something dirty to me right now?

124: What body part do you want me to kiss?

125: Text me your dirtiest fantasy?

126: If you had to send a one-word flirty message, what would it be?

127: Give me a lap dance or get one from me?

128: Say what you’d do to me if I was right next to you?

129: Write a sexy message with only emojis?

130: Tell me your secret fantasy nickname for me?

131: Do you feel any sexual tension between us?

132: What moment made you realize you were really into me?

133: What’s your favorite memory of us being close?

134: Do you think we have strong physical chemistry?

135: How would you rate our bedroom connection?

136: How important is sex to you in a relationship?

137: Do you feel like we’re in sync emotionally and physically?

138: What kind of romantic gestures turn you on?

139: When did you first fantasize about us?

140: Do you think we’re compatible long-term?

141: Ever imagined me naked?

142: What would be your dream seduction plan for me?

143: Would you try tantric sex?

144: How would you react if I surprised you with a spicy night in?

145: What sound do I make that turns you on?

146: Would you rather be teased all night or get right to it?

147: Would you let me blindfold and hand-feed you?

148: How far would you go to turn me on in public?

149: If I sent you a “no panties” text, what would you do?

150: Would you ever go away on a secret romantic weekend with me?

151: What’s one thing I do that drives you crazy—in and out of bed?

152: What would you write in a love letter if it had to be spicy?

153: If our love life was a song, what would it be?

154: What’s something we haven’t tried, but should?

155: Want to play a game of “strip answers only”?