If you’re wanting tips for giving AMAZING head…
You’re in the right place!
Here you’ll discover 21 tips for giving highly-orgasmic head, that’ll have your man BEGGING you for more.
Let’s take a look.
21 Tips For Giving AMAZING Head
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1: Tease Him Ahead Of Time
Not all men want a woman to get straight to sucking.
It’s common for a lot of men to want a nice slow build up to the blowjob, because the build up is a major turn on.
When done right, you’ll have him BEGGING for you to give him head because he’s just so turned on.
Here’s a few ideas you can use to tease your man:
Phone Sex
Ever had phone sex? It’s HOT!
Give your man a call and Start Talking Dirty To Him.
Let him know what you want to do, and that you can’t wait to do it.
Be sexy about it though…
Don’t just “speak” the words.
Say them softly, seductively, with meaning and desire.
It’s highly-erotic when spoken in this kind of tone, and a huge turn for a lot of guys.
Sexting
Sexting is another great way to tease a guy.
It’s quick and easy, and works like a charm!
If you’re not sure on what to say, check out these Sext Message Ideas.
Naughty Selfies
Consider sending your man some naughty selfies.
What you send him is up to you.
But a naughty pic here and there should get him excited!
2: Want That Cock
Great head always starts with you actually wanting (almost CRAVING) to suck his cock in the first place.
Which just means being in the right head space from the get-go.
When you’re in a good head space, the BJ will be pleasing for you to give.
And if it’s pleasing for you, it’s pleasing for him!
3: Kiss Him
Men love to be kissed before (and during) getting head.
It’s very arousing.
Don’t be all “aggressive” about it though, and rape his mouth when kissing him.
Kiss him with passion and desire.
Passionate kissing gets a lot of guys SUPER excited!
4: Lick The Frenulum
The frenulum is the underside of the tip of the cock.
It’s a very sensitive area that when stimulated, can lead to crazy amounts of pleasure.
A few things you can do to the frenulum include:
- Licking
- Sucking
- Kissing
- Gentle massaging
5: Moan
Men love to hear woman moan as they’re getting head.
But it has to be genuine moaning, where you’re moaning because you’re turned on.
If you’re in a good head space and wanting to give him head, moaning should come naturally from the act of doing it.
Also:
Not all guys want you to moan like you’re a whore in a snuff movie.
A lot of guys enjoy subtle, natural moaning that’s all soft-and-seductive.
6: Talk Dirty
Elevate your mans experience simply by talking dirty to him.
Trying saying a few dirty words, then get right back to giving head.
Then a few more dirty words again, then back to sucking again.
Here’s a few ideas on things you could say:
- I love sucking on your cock baby…
- You taste so fucking good baby…
- Give it to me baby…
- Yea, fuck my slutty little mouth baby…
- Mmm can’t wait for you to cum all over me baby…
How filthy you want to be is up to you.
Just remember:
It’s all about how you say it, not what you say.
7: Make Eye Contact
Eye contact is just so damn sexy, and can also help to create a strong connection.
If you look into your mans eyes as you give him head, you’ll create a strong connection both sexually and emotionally.
Don’t just stare at him blankly though…
Instead, try this:
Give him that “lip-biting, I’m BEGGING you to fuck-my-dirty-mouth look.”
That look (that gaze) drives most men CRAZY!
8: Jerk Him
Giving head doesn’t have to involve JUST your mouth.
Try alternating between sucking him off for a bit, and jerking him off for a bit.
And try doing both at the same time.
When switching from your mouth to your hands, it’ll feel incredible either way for him.
He won’t even know the difference!
Speaking of…
9: Use Your Hands
While you’re giving your man head, why not use your hands to do other things to him?
A few things you can do are:
- Play with his nipples
- Run your hands up and down his body
- Grab his ass and pull him against your body
- Scratch him
- Tickle him
- Play with his balls
- Feel his legs up
10: Stimulate His Balls
A mans balls are just as important to stimulate at his cock.
So be sure to pay attention to your mans balls when you give him head.
Kiss them, lick them, suck on them, and massage them.
Make “sweet passionate love” to them.
Also:
Try jerking him off as you’re sucking on his balls.
That way, you’re stimulating both his cock and balls at the same time.
11: Keep That Cock Wet
It’s crucial to keep his cock wet when you’re giving head.
When it’s wet, it will feel a lot better for him, and it makes it easier for your mouth to slide up and down his shaft.
Naturally, you should produce saliva as you’re sucking.
If you need more, spit on his cock.
Spit all over it and get it REAL wet.
If you don’t want to spit, you can also use edible lube, and lube his cock up that way.
Here are the 11 Best Flavored-Edible Lubes.
12: Anilingus Blowjob
Why not turn a regular blowjob into an anilingus blowjob?
Anilingus is a fancy way of saying eating ass.
An anilingus blowjob is where you switch between licking his ass and giving him head.
If you’re up for it, try it!
That area is really sensitive and when stimulated, can lead to explosive orgasms.
13: Use Your Tongue
Tongue play during head is a must!
Particularly around the head, the most sensitive area.
A simple technique you can do is swirl your tongue in a circular motion around the tip.
Be sure to also use your tongue all over his shaft, his balls and his taint. (The area between his testicles and his anus.)
14: Make It Noisy
Most men love to hear the sounds of getting head as they’re getting it.
So as you’re sucking, be noisy about it.
The more he hears you slurping (feasting) and grasping for air, the more turned on he’ll be.
15: Play With Yourself
As you’re pleasing your man, consider pleasing yourself at the same time.
Most guys find this incredibly hot, especially if they can see you doing it and loving it!
Don’t be shy to use a vibrator or dildo to play with yourself!
16: Avoid Using Teeth
When you’re giving head, be mindful of what your teeth are doing.
You want to avoid using teeth at all costs.
If you find your teeth get in the way for whatever reason, focus more on the tip of his dick.
That area will be much easier to stimulate without your teeth getting in the way!
17: Expect Nothing In Return
Giving your man head shouldn’t be something you do only when you get something in return.
It should be something you do without expecting payback because you want to, and because it turns you on.
18: Try Different Positions
There are many different positions you can try when giving head.
Here are a few of the most popular:
- Him standing, you kneeling
- Him sitting on the edge of the bed, you on the floor
- In the shower
- Him sitting on a chair, you kneeling (or standing) on the floor
- While he’s driving
- In the bath
- Him sitting on a chair, you under the table
19: Deep Throat If You Can
Deep throating is an advanced technique that requires control of your gag reflex.
If you don’t have a gag reflex, great.
If you do have one, this guide will show you How To Deep Throat Without Gagging.
20: Don’t Expect Him To Orgasm
Not all guys can orgasm from just a blowjob alone.
Some may need further stimulation from regular sex, or maybe something a little more kinky.
So, be open to doing other things if you really want him to orgasm.
21: Swallow If You Want To
Not all great blowjobs have to end with you swallowing your mans load.
You can if you want to, but it’s not a must.
If he cums in your mouth, you can always just spit it out.
Or let him cum else where, such as all over your breasts, face, or body.
Wrapping Up
And there we go.
21 Tips For Giving Highly-Orgasmic Head!
Put these tips to the test when you next give your man head.
I bet it’ll be HIGHLY-ORGASMIC for him!
Now, over to you…
Did you find these tips for giving head helpful?