135 Controversial Questions For Couples

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Below are 135 controversial questions for couples that go deep.

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Controversial Questions For Couples

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1: Do you believe in soulmates, or is love just a choice?

2: Is it okay to stay in a relationship if the passion is gone but comfort remains?

3: Would you forgive me if I cheated once but confessed right away?

4: Which is worse — emotional cheating or physical cheating?

5: Should couples always share phone passwords?

6: Do you believe love can survive without sex?

7: Should couples know each other’s salary and bank accounts?

8: Would you ever take back an ex if things didn’t work out between us?

9: Do you think one person should always be more in love than the other?

10: Is it normal to still fantasize about other people when in a committed relationship?

11: Should either partner have the power to veto a friend they don’t like?

12: Would you leave me if you fell out of love, even if I still loved you deeply?

13: Can you love more than one person at the same time?

14: Who should apologize first after a fight — who’s wrong, or who values the relationship more?

15: Is it okay to stay with someone just because you’re afraid of being alone?

16: Is it okay to watch porn while in a committed relationship?

17: Should couples experiment with threesomes or open relationships?

18: Would you be mad if I faked orgasms?

19: Do you think it’s okay to flirt with others just for fun?

20: Who should initiate sex more often — the man or the woman?

21: Should couples openly talk about their sexual fantasies, even if they’re shocking?

22: If the sex dies, should the relationship end?

23: Would you ever let me sleep with someone else if it made me happy?

24: What’s worse: no sex for a year, or sex with no emotional intimacy?

25: Do you believe size really matters?

26: Should couples schedule sex, or should it always be spontaneous?

27: Would you want to know about my sexual past in full detail?

28: Can a relationship survive if one partner has a much higher sex drive?

29: Should couples share everything they watch or read that turns them on?

30: Is it okay to role-play sexual scenarios that involve cheating or taboo themes?

31: Should partners share social media passwords?

32: Would you be upset if I kept in touch with an ex?

33: Do you think jealousy is a sign of love or insecurity?

34: Should couples track each other’s location?

35: Would you be mad if I liked someone else’s sexy photos online?

36: Is hiding money as bad as cheating?

37: Should couples delete old photos with exes?

38: Is it okay to have a “work spouse”?

39: Would you want me to tell you if someone else was hitting on me?

40: Should I always be 100% honest with you, even if the truth hurts?

41: Would you rather be lied to if it protected your feelings?

42: Should couples be allowed to check each other’s phones without permission?

43: Would you be jealous if I had a friend of the opposite sex I was really close to?

44: Is it okay to keep little secrets if they don’t affect the relationship?

45: Do you believe once a cheater, always a cheater?

46: Should couples split bills 50/50, no matter who earns more?

47: Is it okay for one partner to fully depend financially on the other?

48: Should a man always pay for dates, even in long-term relationships?

49: Would you date or marry someone who’s bad with money?

50: Who should handle the finances in a relationship?

51: Should couples combine all money, or keep separate accounts?

52: Would you stay with someone if they went bankrupt?

53: Is it okay to hide a side income from your partner?

54: Should one partner have veto power over big purchases?

55: Would you stay with someone who refused to work?

56: Should prenuptial agreements be mandatory?

57: Would you leave me if I refused to sign a prenup?

58: Should the higher earner have more say in financial decisions?

59: Is spoiling your partner with money a healthy thing or a control tactic?

60: Should debt be a dealbreaker in relationships?

61: Should couples marry if one doesn’t want kids and the other does?

62: If I couldn’t have kids, would you leave me?

63: Should kids always come before the relationship?

64: Who should move if jobs pull us to different cities?

65: Would you put your parents before me if it came to choosing?

66: Should couples merge families after marriage, or keep them separate?

67: Would you be okay with me supporting my family financially if they needed it?

68: Should in-laws be allowed to have a say in our relationship?

69: Would you move to another country for me?

70: Should marriage still matter in today’s world?

71: Is it okay to raise kids with completely different beliefs?

72: Would you let me name our children without your input?

73: Should adoption be an equal option to biological kids?

74: Would you stay with me if I never wanted to get married?

75: Should women still take their husband’s last name?

76: Should religion matter in relationships?

77: Is it okay for couples to vote differently in politics?

78: Would you leave me if I switched religions?

79: Should couples always share the same core values?

80: Can opposites really attract long-term?

81: Should a partner change their lifestyle habits (drinking, smoking, etc.) for the relationship?

82: Would you stay with me if I became an addict?

83: Should couples have the same political views to survive?

84: Would you tolerate a partner who didn’t respect your faith?

85: Should couples always agree on moral issues like abortion or euthanasia?

86: Would you change for love?

87: Should you love someone unconditionally, no matter what they do?

88: Can you truly respect someone with opposite values?

89: Should couples be expected to grow in the same direction?

90: Would you leave me if my beliefs offended yours?

91: If I cheated but you never found out, would it still matter?

92: Would you rather I confess everything or keep some things hidden?

93: If I became disabled, would you stay with me forever?

94: Would you take me back if I left you for someone else, then regretted it?

95: If we broke up, would you want me to move on quickly or grieve?

96: If I lost my looks, would you still find me attractive?

97: Would you want to know if I thought someone else was hotter than you?

98: If we weren’t together, do you think we’d still be friends?

99: Would you rather I tell you about my fantasies, even if they upset you?

100: If we weren’t sexually compatible, would you still stay?

101: Would you rather fight often but passionately, or have peace with no spark?

102: Would you leave if I couldn’t satisfy you in bed?

103: If I had to choose between career and you, should I pick you?

104: Would you still love me if I gained a lot of weight?

105: If I never wanted to change, would that bother you?

106: Should couples ever share nudes with each other?

107: Would you be okay with me sexting someone else but not meeting?

108: Should sex toys always be a shared experience, or personal?

109: Would you ever consider swinging?

110: Should couples experiment with kinks even if uncomfortable at first?

111: Would you be okay if I wanted to explore bisexuality?

112: Should partners disclose their full sexual history, even if extreme?

113: Would you judge me for having had many partners before you?

114: Should couples send spicy pics to keep things alive?

115: Would you want me to confess if I had a secret fetish?

116: Would you ever consider an open marriage?

117: Should couples watch porn together?

118: Would you try something sexual just to please me, even if you didn’t enjoy it?

119: Should exes be invited to weddings?

120: Is it okay to keep love letters or gifts from exes?

121: Would you be upset if I fantasized about a celebrity during sex?

122: Should couples sleep in separate beds sometimes?

123: Would you let me strip or do OnlyFans if it made us money?

124: Should we share passwords to dating apps we used before?

125: Would you stay if I fell in love with someone else but wanted you too?

126: Should sex ever be used as a bargaining chip?

127: Would you stay with me if I couldn’t ever touch you again?

128: Should you tell your partner every single sexual desire you have?

129: Would you be okay with a long period of celibacy in the relationship?

130: Should couples be brutally honest about attraction fading?

131: Would you want to know if I was ever unfaithful in past relationships?

132: Should partners ever give each other “hall passes”?

133: Is it okay to use jealousy as a way to spice things up?

134: Should we ever take a “break” to sleep with other people?

135: If one of us cheated but the relationship got stronger after, is that wrong?