135 Controversial Relationship Questions

If you’re looking for controversial relationship questions…

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Below are 135 controversial relationship questions that hit hard.

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Controversial Relationship Questions

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1: Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?

2: Can a relationship survive cheating?

3: Once a cheater, always a cheater; true or false?

4: Would you confess to cheating if your partner would never find out?

5: Is flirting with others while in a relationship cheating?

6: Can watching porn be considered a form of cheating?

7: Should you forgive a partner who cheated but is genuinely sorry?

8: Is sexting someone else while in a relationship a deal-breaker?

9: Can you love someone and still cheat on them?

10: Is cheating always wrong?

11: Is marriage necessary in today’s world?

12: Can long-term relationships work without marriage?

13: Is divorce too easy to get nowadays?

14: Should people marry for love or stability?

15: Is it okay to stay in a marriage for the kids?

16: Should cheating automatically lead to divorce?

17: Should there be a limit on how many times someone can get married?

18: Are open marriages really sustainable?

19: Is it better to marry young or wait until later in life?

20: Would you marry someone who doesn’t want kids?

21: Can two people be truly incompatible even if they love each other?

22: Should you stay with someone you love if you want different futures?

23: Can love fade and still be real?

24: Do soulmates exist?

25: Can you fall out of love and back in again?

26: Is love enough to sustain a relationship?

27: Is it okay to settle if you can’t find “the one”?

28: Can you be in love with more than one person at a time?

29: Is “love at first sight” real?

30: Can you ever fully get over your first love?

31: Should couples have joint bank accounts?

32: Is it okay for one partner to be financially dependent?

33: Can a relationship work if one person earns significantly more?

34: Should you sign a prenup?

35: Who should pay on the first date?

36: Should bills be split 50/50, even if incomes are different?

37: Is it okay to financially support your partner long-term?

38: Should you tell your partner your exact income?

39: Is it okay to lend large sums of money to family behind your partner’s back?

40: Can financial incompatibility end a relationship?

41: Is it healthy to go through your partner’s phone?

42: Should your partner know all your passwords?

43: Is it ever okay to lie to your partner?

44: Should you share everything with your partner?

45: Can you be too honest in a relationship?

46: Is giving someone the silent treatment abusive?

47: Should you have to tell your partner where you are 24/7?

48: Is it okay to keep secrets in a relationship?

49: Should arguments be private, even from close friends?

50: Is raising your voice ever justified in a disagreement?

51: Is sex essential in a healthy relationship?

52: Should you have sex even when you’re not in the mood, just to please your partner?

53: Can a relationship survive a sexless period?

54: Should your partner’s sexual past matter?

55: Is it okay to have fantasies about someone else?

56: How important is sexual compatibility?

57: Should you be allowed to masturbate while in a relationship?

58: Is it okay to watch porn alone in a committed relationship?

59: Is scheduling sex unromantic or realistic?

60: Should sex be used as a bargaining tool?

61: Should you post your partner on social media?

62: Is it shady to hide your relationship online?

63: Should couples share social media accounts?

64: Is liking sexy pics on Instagram disrespectful?

65: Should you delete old photos of your ex?

66: Should you be friends with your ex on social media?

67: Is it okay to check your partner’s DMs?

68: Is online flirting harmless?

69: Should you block your ex once you’re in a new relationship?

70: Is it okay to have a finsta your partner doesn’t know about?

71: Can you stay friends with an ex?

72: Should you tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with?

73: Is it okay to compare your current partner to an ex?

74: Should your partner know about all your past relationships?

75: Is it okay to keep gifts from your ex?

76: Can talking to an ex be considered emotional cheating?

77: Would you date someone who cheated in a past relationship?

78: Should you be honest if you still have feelings for an ex?

79: Can you ever truly be over your ex?

80: Should your partner know if you ran into your ex?

81: Is it your partner’s responsibility to help heal your trauma?

82: Should you disclose past abuse early in a relationship?

83: Can mental illness ruin a relationship?

84: Is therapy a must for serious couples?

85: Is it fair to expect your partner to “fix” you?

86: Can love heal deep emotional wounds?

87: Should you stay with someone who refuses to get help?

88: Is self-care more important than relationship care?

89: Should couples do couples therapy even if nothing seems wrong?

90: Can toxic people change?

91: Is love supposed to be hard work?

92: Should your partner always come first?

93: Is quality time more important than quantity of time?

94: Should loyalty be unconditional?

95: Is it okay to expect your partner to change?

96: Should you take breaks during fights or resolve them immediately?

97: Can you love someone but not want to be with them?

98: Should one person always compromise more?

99: Is it okay to outgrow a relationship?

100: Can relationships have “expiration dates”?

101: Should the man always propose?

102: Is it emasculating for a woman to earn more?

103: Should men always pay for dates?

104: Is it okay for women to shoot their shot first?

105: Can traditional gender roles still work today?

106: Is it okay to expect your partner to cook/clean?

107: Should parenting roles be 50/50?

108: Is it okay if the woman never wants to change her last name?

109: Should men be more emotionally expressive?

110: Can a relationship survive if gender roles clash?

111: Should love trump cultural or religious expectations?

112: Can interfaith relationships work long-term?

113: Is it okay to go against your family for love?

114: Should your partner’s family like you?

115: Is it okay to convert religions for a partner?

116: Should children be raised in one or both religions?

117: Should you prioritize your partner over your parents?

118: Can clashing cultures kill a relationship?

119: Should in-laws have a say in your relationship?

120 Is it okay to hide your relationship from your family?

121: Should your partner be allowed to have friends of the opposite sex?

122: Is jealousy healthy or toxic?

123: Should your partner’s opinion affect how you dress?

124: Is being possessive a sign of love or insecurity?

125: Can you love someone and still crave independence?

126: Should you ask permission before making big life choices?

127: Is it okay to go on solo vacations in a relationship?

128: Can controlling behaviour ever be justified?

129: Should there be “rules” in love?

130: Is trust given or earned?

131: Is it okay to test your partner?

132: Would you stay if your partner said they didn’t believe in monogamy?

133: Is it toxic to expect your partner to read your mind?

134: Should your partner be your best friend?

135: Can love be toxic and still be love?