How To Be Dominant In Bed: 13 Simple Steps

If you want to learn how to be dominant in bed…

This guide is for you.

Here you’ll discover 13 ways to be dominant in bed and drive your partner WILD!

Let’s dive in.

How To Be Dominant In Bed

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1: Boss Your Partner Around

There’s no better way to be dominant in bed than by bossing your partner around.

When you’re the boss, you have all the power and control!

Here’s the key though:

You need to boss them around using a stern tone of voice.

It’s more about how you say it, not what you say.

Here are five examples of things you could tell them to do:

• Give me head NOW!
• Fuck me!
• Get on all fours at once!
• Kiss my feet!
• Lick it off AT ONCE!

2: Call Them Submissive Names

If you want to be dominant in bed, you need to call your partner submissive names.

Here are three examples of submissive names:

• Slut
• Whore
• Little bitch

Using submissive names when you speak adds more heat to the stove!

3: Tie Your Partner Up

If you’re into bondage, this will be right up your ally.

Tying your partner up is another form of dominance.

You can use things such as rope, hand cuffs, or even a pair of panties!

4: Choke & Bite During Sex

Speak with your partner about this one first.

But if they’re up for it, choke and bite them during se.

This is a form of S&M, and another way to be dominant in bed!

5: Have Sex In Positions Where You’re In Charge

Being dominant in bed requires you to have sex in positions that allow you to be in control.

You on top is one of the best positions for this, whether you’re female, or male.

If you’re a male, putting your woman into the doggy style position is a dominant position too!

6: Blindfold Your Partner

Blindfolding your partner is another great way to be dominant in bed.

The fact that they lose their sense of sight is a turn on for many people.

Even more, you can use items you already have such as a bra, panties, a bandana, or even a scarf.

7: Speak Dirty

If you’re going to be dominant, you need to speak dirty too!

Dirty talk takes sex to a different level.

When it comes to dirty talk, it’s all about how you say what you’re saying.

Speak soft, slow, and with a low tone of voice.

When speaking like this, whatever you say will sound sexy!

8: Spank & Slap During Sex

Is there anything kinkier than spanking and slapping during sex?

Where you slap your partner is up to you, but the most common areas are:

• Butt
• Face
• Genitals

9: Fuck Your Partner Hard & Rough

Hard, rough sex is the epitome of dominance in bed!

When having sex in a position where you’re in control, fuck like a wild animal!

The more animalistic you are, the more dominant you are too!

10: Incorporate Edging

Edging is an amazing technique to use when you want complete control.

It’s where you bring your partner to the brink of cumming, but then you stop what you’re doing so they’re unable to.

Then, you rinse and repeat over and over again until you allow them to cum.

11: Try Roleplaying

Roleplaying is where you dress up as characters, then have sex as those characters.

Five popular roles you might like to explore include:

• The Slutty Little Assistant
• The Hot Nurse
• The Cop With A Big Cock
• The Hunk Fireman
• The Dirty Doctor

12: Use Sex Toys

Sex toys are fun, provide loads of pleasure, and are great for domination.

You can use them on your partner, on yourself, or both.

BDSM toys are the best toys for dominating in the bedroom!

13: Shut Them Up With A Gag

True domination in the bedroom requires your partner to be gagged!

There are gags you can buy, or you can use items such as a pair of panties, or a pair of socks!