How To Be Kinky (+11 Simple Kink Ideas)

If you want to learn how to be kinky…

This guide is for you.

Here you’ll learn how to be kinky, plus you’ll discover 11 kinks that are so fricken HOT!

Let’s jump in.

How To Be Kinky

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1: Understand What Kinks Are

Kinks are the use of sexual practices, fantasies, and concepts that are not considered “regular sex.”

Anything outside the realm of regular sex may be a kink.

2: Be Open Minded & Curious

If you want to be kinky, you need to be open minded and curious.

When you’re open minded and curious, you’re happy to embrace new ideas.

Furthermore:

When you’re curious, you free your mind and become more creative!

3: Speak With Your Partner

It’s a good idea to speak with your partner about kinks you’re into.

Especially if you want to explore them.

A good way to approach the topic is to ask if they’re into anything kinky, or open to trying new things.

4: Depending On The Kink, Use Safe Words

Some kinks can be dangerous, so always have safe words.

Safe words let the other person know you’re uncomfortable, or to stop.

Also, if you keep your safe words simple, they’ll be easier to say.

5: Try Simple Kinks First

There are many types of kinks you can try.

If you’re new to kinks, start simple and small.

As you gain more experience, you may want to explore more advanced “kink scenes!”

Simple Kink Ideas

1: Bondage

Bondage is one of the most popular kinks.

Because it’s easy, there isn’t much required, and it’s hot!

All you need is something to restrain your partner.

Such as a pair of handcuffs, a piece of rope, or even a pair of panties.

2: Threesome

If you’re open to bringing a third person into the mix, do it!

A threesome might be the thing for you.

There are dating sites where lot’s of people are looking for the same thing!

3: Camming

Camming is where you perform sex acts on cam in front of a live audience.

You can do this solo, or with a partner.

4: Choking, Biting & Slapping

These acts come under the umbrella of S&M.

S&M is you get gratification in inflicting, or receiving, pain or humiliation.

5: Roleplaying

Roleplaying allows you to dress up as a character, then have sex as that character.

If you enjoy dressing up in costumes, you’ll love this kink!

Here are five roleplaying ideas to explore:

• The Sexy Policeman
• The Slutty Assistant
• The Handsome Jock
• The Naughty Nurse
• The Nerdy School Teacher

6: Create A Sex Tape

Have you ever thought about filming yourself have sex?

All you need is a mobile phone and you’re good to go.

The tape can be something you and your partner watch together in private.

Or, you might wanna upload it online for the world to see!

7: Sex In Public

Yet another popular kink is having sex in a public place.

The risk of getting caught is very arousing for a lot of people!

Here are several ideas on public places to have sex:

• Inside a movie theatre
• On a bus
• On a plane
• At a train station
• At a local event

8: Wax Play

Wax play is where you drip hot candle wax onto a person’s skin.

What people like about it is the burning sensation from the wax.

Use wax play candles for this act.

These candles burn at a lower temp compared to others.

9: Edging

Edging is where you’re about to cum, but you stop and prevent it.

Then, doing that over and over again, which makes the final cum explosive!

10: Pegging

Pegging is the act of penetrating a mans anus with a strap-on dildo.

A lot of guys love it because the male g-spot is 2-3 inches in the anus.

11: Dual Masturbation

Dual masturbation is where you and your partner masturbate together.

It works best when you’re laying next to each other.

In this position, you can use one hand on yourself, and your other hand to touch your partner.