How To Spice Up A Marriage Sexually: 17 Ways

If you wanna learn how to spice up a marriage sexually…

This guide is for you.

Here you’ll discover 17 ways to spice up a marriage sexually, so you can take things to the next level!

Let’s jump in.

How To Spice Up A Marriage Sexually

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1: Give Bondage A Go

Bondage is where you restrain your partner to restrict their movements.

For example, you can bind their hands together with a piece of rope.

Or, cuff both of their hands (and even their ankles) to the frame of your bed.

You can use items you have at home as the restraint too.

Such as:

• A pair of panties
• A man’s tie
• A bra
• Zip ties
• A piece of rope

2: Use Sex Toys

If you’ve never used sex toys, you’re missing out!

Sex toys are fun, easy to use, and provide loads of pleasure.

Popular toys for women include:

• Dildos
• Vibrators
• Clit Suckers
• Nipple Suckers
• Anal Beads

And for men there are:

• Masturbators
• Fleshlights
• Cock Cages
• Dolls

3: Try Different Positions

Trying different positions is a great way to spice up a marriage sexually.

They’re a great way to express your true sexual self too!

Here are some easy positions to try:

• Doggy Style
• Cowgirl
• 69

4: Create A Sex Tape

If you’re up for it, create a sex tape.

All you need is a mobile phone, and you’re good to go.

You can keep it private, or upload it for the world to watch!

5: Try Roleplaying

If you like to dress in costumes, you’ll love roleplaying.

In roleplaying, you get to dress up as certain characters, then have sex as those characters.

Here are five popular roleplaying ideas to try:

• The Strapping Police Officer
• The Slutty Assistant
• The Dirty Doctor
• The Perverted Mailman
• The Hot Pool Cleaning Guy

6: Perform On Cam

Are you open to having sex live on camera?

If so, camming might be for you.

Camming is where you perform sex acts on cam in front of a live audience.

7: Explore S&M

S&M stands for sadomasochism.

It’s where you receive pleasure from inflicting, or receiving, pain or humiliation.

Things like biting, slapping, and choking are S&M.

If you’re kinky, S&M will be right up your ally!

8: Play Bedroom Games

Do you like playing games?

If so, you’ll love bedroom games.

They’re great for adding more “flavour” into your sex life!

9: Have Dirty Text Sex

Sexting is a turn on for a lot of people.

It’s a great way to get each other in the mood when you’re a part.

Especially if one is on their way home!

10: Have Sex Around The House

Sex doesn’t have to happen only in the bedroom.

Spice things up and have sex all around your house.

Some places you might like to try:

• Up against the washing machine
• On top of the dining table
• On the edge of the sofa
• On the kitchen countertop
• Out on the deck

11: Masturbate Together

Masturbating with a partner is such an intimate sexual experience.

The easiest way to perform it is by laying next to each other as you both masturbate.

Use only one hand though, because you can then use your other hand to “feel up” your partner.

You can take it a step further by incorporating toys.

12: Try Pegging

Pegging is where you penetrate a mans ass with a strap on.

A guys g-spot is 2-3 inches inside the anus.

When stimulated, it leads to insane orgasms!

13: Give Each Other Happy Ending Massages

This is a massage that ends in sex!

You might like to try a “nuru massage” as well.

You both get coated in oil, then engage in full body to body contact.

The woman lays on top of the male, then slips-n-slides all over his body!

14: Try Edging

Edging is a popular kink.

It’s where you’re about to cum, but you stop and prevent it from happening.

Then, doing that over and over again to make your final cum as explosive as possible!

15: Watch Porn Together

Watching porn is an easy way to find new sex positions to try.

Porn stars have sex in all kinds of crazy positions, so it makes sense to have a look!

Then when you’re game, whip out your phone and make your own porn!

16: Have A Threesome

Are you open to bringing a third person into your sex life?

If you are, speak with your partner about it.

You never know, they may be keen too!

17: Have Sex In Public

If you haven’t had sex in public, you’re missing out!

It’s fun, naughty, thrilling, and exciting!

Also, there are so many different public places to have sex.

Here are five:

• At the river
• Inside the haunted house at the local fair
• At the back of a bus
• At the gym
• In a McDonalds toilet